A few years ago I heard a few people talk about a new book that had come out and everyone was fascinated by it. I wondered what was so special about this book so I started to look into it. Me being a complete nerd, had to find out what the fuss what all about. The book in question is called The Secret by Rhonda Byrne. I was struggling financially and knew I wanted to do something about it so took a long walk to the closest library. Luckily for me they had one copy of the book and it was available to take out. I walked home excited because everyone I had spoken to had told me that this book could change my life. What I learned from reading this book was that I could manifest anything into my life at will. This is known as the law of attraction. The law of attraction states that like attracts like. So, if you visualize positive things you will manifest positive things into your life, whereas, if you focus on the negative you will attract more of it. What a concept. I began to realise that I had used this method throughout my life and attracted certain things without even knowing that it was a universal law, and the strongest one at that. Over the last three years or so my manifesting skills were buried and gone forever. This is what depression does to you. When you are in that state of mind it is very difficult to focus on the positive and to visualize positive changes in your life. Have you ever noticed that when you are in a depressed state and you are staring directly into the abyss that you only attract negative situations, people and things into your life? Simply put, I was in a funk and I didn’t know how to get out of it.
How Did I Get Out Of That Funk?
I came to Australia for three months. What what? How is that possible? Let me just say that it is extremely hard to come out of a depressive episode when you live in the UK because it can get pretty dark and gloomy for months and months at a time and you get seasonal effective disorder on top of your actual depression. My brother bought me a return ticket and we planned a sibling reunion (my sister joined us from South Africa). I knew my debts were piling up and that going away for three months would be running away from my problems and responsibilities, however, I had to do it for my mental well being. Australia is nice and hot this time of year so I would be getting plenty of fresh air and vitamin D. Being around family helps a whole bunch as well. I was starting to feel very very (did I say very) suicidal. Trust me it takes a motherfucking lot to get me to that point. So, I did it for my mental well being and to lift my depression enough to think with a rational mind. In the last three months I have been doing EFT Tapping in the mornings with the occasional visualization here and there and some mirror work to gain more confidence. I have also been going to the beach, swimming in the sea, socializing, listening to good music and generally having a good time. My depression has lifted enough for me to start thinking with a rational mind and I am finding it easier to visualize and work on my desires.
What Am I Going To Do Now?
So, how am I going to change things and turn my life around? Hard work and dedication of course. Is that it? No, there is more. I intend to use the law of attraction to raise my vibration and to manifest the life that I want even faster. Is this even possible? Yes, it is absolutely possible. I know this from past experience. I have manifested very specific things into my life and it usually happens withing weeks. Not years. Not months. Weeks. Believe me when I tell you that I was a skeptic too until it happened for me. I intend to continue to use EFT tapping every morning to keep myself focused and to keep my anxiety from rearing its ugly head round every corner. I have come up with a list of goals I would like to achieve by the end of the year and I intend to prove to myself that I can and will attain them. I have written down a law of attraction list with my goals on it and have made a vision board that I can look at every time I feel I am struggling to visualize. How do I make my vision boards? I made a tutorial video about it 👉👉👉👉HERE.
This is just an example of one of my vision boards that I have created for myself. I will list the things on my vision board below:
- Weight loss and fitness.
- Camera for my social media videos.
- A relationship with my ideal partner (that’s a completely different set of vision board goals).
- My ideal house with garden.
- 25 thousand followers/likes on my Facebook page and blog.
How Am I Going To Use The Law Of Attraction To Achieve It
I find that the best technique that works for me is to visualize the things on my vision board for a few seconds numerous times throughout the day for a few weeks at a time. Usually, after a couple of weeks I start to see results no matter how big or small. It is not necessarily the actual thing itself but sometimes it will be a person, situation or job that will lead me to it. The trick is to remain consistent and to continue to stay focused on the results with as much positivity as possible even when some negativity seeps in. Lets face it, sometimes things happen, a person will be rude, you will drop something. I know how hard it is to remain in a positive space when something goes wrong. That’s usually when I give up and decide it’s not working. I will keep persisting and pushing on. I know I can do this!